Hey guys! I know I've been a while getting back on my job as a blogger, but I've been busy! HAH But seriously, I came with more food for thought for my eager readers...
We all know that I generally write about things that sometimes just pop up in my mind or certain conversation with friends or even just something I hear over the radio. Today is one of those if I were in their shoes type of day and I came up with a few topics that may interest use as far as relationships go.
My First topic is a…
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Added by L Philosophy on October 4, 2009 at 9:25pm —
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As humans, we all tend to make mistakes. It is a part of our anatomy, what makes who we are. Some mistakes are worse than others and some can be let go of easliy!
What about mistakes we've made without our knowledge? Some of the things that we regret that we honestly had no control over. These are some the questions I ask myself and I'm sure you have too...
What happens when your the other woman and don't even know it? Some say impossible, but for some woman it has been a pivital factor in thi…
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Added by L Philosophy on August 8, 2009 at 8:00pm —
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The other side of enjoying time with your significant other is missing them when they are not around. Understandably, we get wrapped up in making the time we spend together meaningful and memorable. But, time spent apart is just as important. There's a fine line, however, between missing someone and loving them more for it, and missing someone to the point of stress on the relationship.
Time apart can actually strengthen a relationship: that time and energy you spend missing someone can make ju…
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Added by L Philosophy on July 13, 2009 at 11:00pm —
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Even bound by clothes I'm bare,
It's my lovely tanned skin that leaves me
...Vulnerable.
So open and so bare to your eyes,
That even when I feel like I'm covered,
I'm really naked to you.
You see the curves of my hips through my clothes,
The softness of my skin caressing my shirt,
The details of my thighs beneath my shorts.
The thighs you wish were wrapped around your waist,
The skin you wish you could feel as you see me undress,
Staring at me naked and true with bloodshot eyes,
And ferocious li…
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Added by L Philosophy on July 8, 2009 at 11:53pm —
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You watch the relationship red flags waving at you, but gosh, he’s just so good-looking. So you dismiss them to see where the relationship will go. The problem with turning a blind eye to those red flags of a relationship in the making is that eventually they’ll come back to haunt you. You could end up hurt and resentful, even though you could have protected yourself. The following are six relationship red flags and warning signals of a doomed relationship. Plus: Are you over your ex?
To find t…
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Added by L Philosophy on July 8, 2009 at 8:02pm —
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Have you ever had the unpleasant experience of talking with a few of your girlfriends, and the conversation ultimately gravitates to the wonderful relationships all of them are having? It's terrible, especially if your own relationship isn't doing that well. But as you start feeling sorry for yourself or wondering what's going wrong, you immediately shut yourself off and tell yourself that you "don't need a man."
But deep down inside, you know that you're yearning for a healthy, meaningful rela…
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Added by L Philosophy on July 8, 2009 at 7:48pm —
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Communication is extremely important in a relationship, unfortunately many people do not have good communication skills. It is often hard to express our feelings, needs, and desires to our partner. When we disclose personal information, we are putting ourselves in a vulnerable position and we risk rejection. It is also difficult to talk about sexual matters because most of us are taught as children that sex is a taboo topic. Many people get uncomfortable at the mere mention of sex and most peopl…
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Added by L Philosophy on July 8, 2009 at 10:36am —
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So what happens when you have something negative to say? Let’s face it, being in a relationship is a lot of work. In order to make it rewarding and satisfying, you have to speak up when something is bothering you. Things aren’t always perfect and happy; there will be fighting and arguing at times. But there is a right way to fight, and it involves fighting fairly. First of all, if something is bothering you, don’t just blurt out a criticism. Think about the various ways you could tell your partn…
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Added by L Philosophy on July 8, 2009 at 10:29am —
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Whether you've performed oral sex on him once or dozens of times, you've never done it like this! After graduating from Oral Sex 101, it's time to amp up your original moves by trying any (or all) of the following twists.
Get Lewd with Food
Watching a woman lick his penis is just about every guy's idea of heaven. Watching a woman lick cream/honey/yogurt off his penis sends him to sexual nirvana. Smear it, drip it on and lick it off ‑- food is such a versatile sex toy that the possibilities are…
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Added by L Philosophy on July 7, 2009 at 9:23pm —
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Traditionally, "foreplay" was considered to be something that a man had to do to get his partner ready for sexual intercourse. Today, foreplay has become an integral part of the whole lovemaking experience. It is true that impromptu sexual encounters without foreplay can sometimes be some of the best sexual experiences, but in general, most women will agree that good sexual encounters mean that you learn the importance of foreplay. A more vigilant form of foreplay will bring increased pleasure t…
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Added by L Philosophy on July 7, 2009 at 9:00pm —
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Afraid to close my eyes and dive a little deeper- to reach for you when I feel alone- more afraid to want you- I trace lines around the most simple of things that make you you- do you understand why it is I feel this way- Or once again am I gona be that lowly lonely girl just here to ease the pain-
Afraid to be in your arms- I loose a small piece of me each time- I look towards the sky, the sun blinding me eyes- me trying to erase any confusion that I feel- I hug the wind for a sense of self-
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Added by L Philosophy on May 16, 2009 at 7:08pm —
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I think to myself, damn girl what are you doing...? A part of me doubts everything that I've done the last few months. From career to family, and now the intimate side of me. Anyone that really knows me well knows that I've never been the girl to stay around to long. I shelter myself from anything thats too emotionally tied. Mostly anything too deep I shy away from.
The begining of 2009 was the turning point for me. A year older made my heart a year wiser to what it was I've been fighting for l…
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Added by L Philosophy on May 14, 2009 at 4:59pm —
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"I dream of a nation where little black boys and girls and little white boys and girls can
go forth hand in hand"
I dream too…
I dream
I dream of a place where a black man and a black woman
Hand in hand
Reviewing and revising the layouts of their master plan
Over and over
Again
Like the blueprint of a heist
And the master plan
Plans the master will no longer have the upper hand
And the black man and black woman
Together build back the land
I call it revolution
A solution
To the pollution we ha…
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Added by L Philosophy on March 17, 2009 at 8:21pm —
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I sit amongst confusion,
what shall I do?
Sitting with love's comments,
a pain from love so new
Out the window I stare,
come to me my love; come.
Show me your loves true form.
This face, memory of kisses tender,
passion in your left eye.
Lip to lip, my nerves begin to tense.
Its you I miss, love with no motive,
for you a world- all and nothing,
I have to give.
Get close to me my love.
Your hands, your hands against my form,
tis you again:
no pretend for who was born.
Love, he…
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Added by L Philosophy on March 17, 2009 at 8:13pm —
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I know that I'm new to this Myspace and no one really knows me all that well, but there is one thing that's weighing heavy on my heart. Sometimes I find myself in a state of pure dream land, and with the music I listen to(currently Sade; No Ordinary Love), it doesn't help ease my thoughts. I, at times think back on the one I let get away from me. The one man that I wanted deeper than he knows. At times I feel foolish. I messed up bad, scared he was going to be like one of the "other" men I've…
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Added by L Philosophy on March 17, 2009 at 8:09pm —
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Recently in the conversations I'de had, I have been asked if I ever cheated within a relationship... The honest truth is 'Yes'. What adds insult to injury is the fact that the person I cheated on was my fiance at the time. As beings of habit, we lead ourselves to believe that faced with situations we've never been in before. We would never assume we'de willing partake in actions or associations we normally don't deal with.
For some people infidelity is part of thier character, a part of thier n…
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Added by L Philosophy on March 17, 2009 at 7:58pm —
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In my lifetime I've been given more chances and privledges than most that I know. Some I walked away from and others, jumping on thier backs like it was the last ride for me. I've never really made any decision base on the negative reponses or the 'cons' of whatever it was. Every yes and every no, every up and ever down. every right and every left was based on the satisfaction I got from that paticular moment.
I've known plenty of people, slept with, dated, associated, befriended, disfriended,…
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Added by L Philosophy on February 22, 2009 at 6:53pm —
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Perception, a word few today use, then again why should we when most of our perception is blocked by materialistic value? Perception in my own way of thinking is an attribute of character. What makes us go left or right, say yes or no, to stay or not to stay, to love the rapture or love the surrender. Perception is major part of our lives the we sometimes don't take notice. Our perception of how life moves us is how we as people inturn react to life itself. Like the baking soda before adding vin…
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Added by L Philosophy on January 26, 2009 at 8:00pm —
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Sexual infidelity is one of humanity's great obsessions, perhaps second only to violence. We taboo it, yet we want to hear all about it, and some can't resist it. It's what has kept Jerry Springer on TV for the past 14 years. Some will justify their stepping-off as means to maintain the relationship they are in.
In one story after another, mundane and epic, we are reminded of the emotional and social fallout of messing around. That's in addition to the scowls it gets from the world's biggest r…
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Added by L Philosophy on January 7, 2009 at 6:54pm —
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FINE
This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are right and you need to shut up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman looks - this will cause you to have one of those arguments.
FIVE MINUTES
This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it's an even trade.
NOTHING
This means "something," and you should be on your toes. "Nothing" is usually used to describe the feeling a woman ha…
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Added by L Philosophy on January 6, 2009 at 8:34pm —
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