Who Signs Up For This?... the other woman
As humans, we all tend to make mistakes. It is a part of our anatomy, what makes who we are. Some mistakes are worse than others and some can be let go of easliy!
What about mistakes we've made without our knowledge? Some of the things that we regret that we honestly had no control over. These are some the questions I ask myself and I'm sure you have too...
What happens when your the other woman and don't even know it? Some say impossible, but for some woman it has been a pivital factor in thier lives at one point or another. You come to find yourself as the third wheel of an relationship assuming that you had the number one spot?
Or what happens when you find that you lover is seeing someone else and during the moment of confrontation, they run off with the other chick? In a sense you feel as if you have always been the mistress, or the 'girl' on the side.
Some people may say that the fault may have been on you for being so naive. Or that you should have known that you wern't the only one in his life. But for those of us woman who have really truly beenin situations like these, where are we suppose to go from that point on? Finding the love of your life was always your love, but you were never his.
In these moments of quiet, where we feel most vulnerable. How is it that we make sense of such disfunction.... Given the situation!
What about mistakes we've made without our knowledge? Some of the things that we regret that we honestly had no control over. These are some the questions I ask myself and I'm sure you have too...
What happens when your the other woman and don't even know it? Some say impossible, but for some woman it has been a pivital factor in thier lives at one point or another. You come to find yourself as the third wheel of an relationship assuming that you had the number one spot?
Or what happens when you find that you lover is seeing someone else and during the moment of confrontation, they run off with the other chick? In a sense you feel as if you have always been the mistress, or the 'girl' on the side.
Some people may say that the fault may have been on you for being so naive. Or that you should have known that you wern't the only one in his life. But for those of us woman who have really truly beenin situations like these, where are we suppose to go from that point on? Finding the love of your life was always your love, but you were never his.
In these moments of quiet, where we feel most vulnerable. How is it that we make sense of such disfunction.... Given the situation!
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